Why you should forgive him.

I read a post from a woman who wrote why she shouldn't forgive him. She was right, she ran after him when he left her and moved in with another woman. He LEFT her, begging him to come back was not the way to repair what was broke in their marriage.

The reason I am writing this is I believe you can forgive him, not for him, but for yourself to move on. My husband cheated and moved out of our home. I told him I wanted to try to work things out. That we needed to go to marriage counselling. I gave him a date to make up his mind so I would know when I could move on. Then I went out, didn't date, but I enjoyed myself. I didn't wait by the phone for him, I lived my life. He chose to come back, he chose to get counselling, he chose to ask me to renew our vows. It took some time, but I was able to trust him again, since I agreed to counselling, I was able to forgive him. But the trust wasn't as easy, but it can be happen.

It has now been 20 years and we are still together. And I wouldn't have it any other way.

Mamma Mia

I tried to watch "Mamma Mia" today, but I couldn't get past Merle Streep. Because of her liberal views (that she has right too) that came pouring out during an awards show, I cannot watch it. I realize she has a right to her political views, but what I heard was hate, not politics. Now, knowing she has that much hate towards someone that I voted for and is our president makes me realize that the actors in Hollywood are so full of themselves that we, the public for whom they work, mean nothing.

If wasn't for all of us buying tickets, buying or renting their DVDs, they wouldn't make the kind of money they do.

September

Every September I get depressed. When it first started I wasn't sure what it was, then I realized it was during September that Rob had an affair. I know it has been years, but some things never leave you. It was one of the worst times in my life. So I watch love stories (Romantic Comedies). I laugh and cry, but they always find each other in the end. This year is different, I find myself watching the movies with actors who also have appeared in the Harry Potter movies (?), like "Love Actually", "Sense and Sensibility", "Maid in Manhattan", "Mamma Mia", and "The First Wives Club". There are more, but I realized we are also watching the Harry Potter movies. So all the love interests are all Sorcerers or Witches.